No, You Don't Have to Decide.
Recently in my church world I have heard this many times: “to not decide is to decide.” Specifically, to not make a conscious decision about whether to leave the UMC, or stay in, is to somehow abandon your responsibility to take a stand on whatever it is you don't like, or like, about United Methodism. Now this is actually just nonsense. God does not expect us to re-examine every commitment we’ve made every time our circumstances change slightly. I’m married. I see a pretty woman. Oops now I’m going to have to go through a process of discernment to decide whether I stay married or not because, to not decide is to decide. I’m an American citizen traveling abroad. I see that there are other countries and cultures. So now I must go through a process of discernment to decide whether or not I want to remain an American. Because to not decide is to decide. I read about a new religious faith. It seems attractive. So I’m now obliged to reevaluate my faith in Christ. Because although He h...